What to Do When a Group Member Isn’t Doing Their Part

When a group member isn’t doing their part, talk to them directly first, then make the plan visible: split the work into named tasks with deadlines in a shared document everyone can see. If that doesn’t work, tell the teacher early, with specifics, before the project is due. Don’t secretly do their share, and don’t wait until the night before to complain.

I assign group projects on purpose. Working with people you didn’t choose, some more motivated than others, is one of the most real-world skills school can teach. I also hear about the frustration every single time. Here’s how to handle it like an adult, which is exactly what employers will expect.

Start Every Group Project the Right Way

Most group problems start in the first 15 minutes. Prevent them:

Read the assignment together. Make sure everyone understands what “done” looks like.
Break it into specific tasks. Not “research,” but “find three sources on the causes of the French Revolution.”
Put a name and a date on every task. Unassigned work doesn’t get done.
Use one shared document with the task list at the top, so everyone sees the same plan.
Agree on how you’ll communicate: a group chat, a shared doc’s comments, or a check-in at the start of class.
Set your own deadline two days before the real one, so there’s room to fix things.

When Someone Isn’t Pulling Their Weight

Step 1: Assume the best, and ask

Sometimes a teammate is struggling with something you don’t know about: a job, a family situation, confusion about the assignment. Message them directly and privately:

“Hey, we’re putting the slides together Thursday. How’s your section going? Need help with anything?”

That message solves more problems than you’d expect.

Step 2: Make it specific

If nothing changes, be clear and calm: “We need your two slides on the economy by Wednesday night so we can practice Thursday. Can you get them done?” Specific tasks with specific deadlines are hard to ignore.

Step 3: Keep a simple record

Not to get anyone in trouble, but so you have facts if you need them. Shared docs show who edited what and when. Keep the group chat. Note what was assigned and what came in.

Step 4: Tell the teacher early

If a week goes by with no progress, talk to your teacher, before the due date, not after. Keep it factual:

“Our group assigned tasks on Monday. Two of us have finished our parts. We’ve messaged our third member twice and haven’t heard back. How would you like us to handle it?”

Teachers can work with that. We can talk to the student, adjust the grading, or split the group. What we can’t do much about is a complaint the morning the project is due.

What Not to Do

Don’t quietly do their part. It feels faster, but you’ll be exhausted, and the teacher won’t know what happened.
Don’t trash them in the group chat. Screenshots last forever, and it makes you look worse than them.
Don’t wait until the end. Problems are easy to fix early and nearly impossible to fix late.

What If You’re the One Falling Behind?

It happens. Say so early: “I’ve got a lot going on this week. Can I take the smaller task, or can I have until Friday?” Your group will respect honesty far more than silence. If you’ve fallen behind in more than one class, here’s how to catch up after falling behind.

Why Teachers Assign Group Projects Anyway

Because almost every job involves working on a team. You’ll have coworkers who are brilliant, coworkers who are slow, and coworkers who disappear. Learning to set clear expectations, follow up, and raise problems professionally is worth more than any single grade. If you want to explore what kind of work suits you, see how to explore career interests in high school.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is it unfair that we all get the same grade?

Sometimes it can be. That’s why many teachers use peer evaluations or individual grades for parts of a project. If yours doesn’t, ask whether the teacher will consider individual contributions.

Should I ask to switch groups?

Try to fix the problem first. If it’s truly not working after you’ve talked to the teammate and the teacher, the teacher may decide a change makes sense.

What if my group member is a friend?

Be honest anyway. “I need your part by Wednesday” is a fair thing to say to a friend. Good friends can handle clear expectations.

How do I divide the work fairly?

List every task, estimate how long each will take, and split by time, not by number of tasks. Let people pick tasks that fit their strengths when possible.

What tools help with group projects?

A shared document or slide deck, a simple task list with names and dates, and one agreed-on chat. Fancy tools matter less than everyone using the same ones.

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About Clay Shumate
Clay Shumate is a certified secondary history teacher with an M.Ed. in Secondary Education and seven years of classroom experience. He writes about helping students take ownership of their learning, and about how families and schools can work together without talking down to young people.